Thursday, August 29, 2019

Things that go bump in the night....

We arrived in Entebbe after 22 hours of flying, as scheduled, and had a rather uneventful 7 hour drive to Gulu. Little did we know that things would become eventful in an unwanted way before too much time went by.
Even though it was late in the day, we were greeted by a couple from Gulu Bible Community Church who gave us a warm welcome and a tour of our new house. Since it was not furnished, we spent the first few days in a hotel in Gulu. We purchased the bare minimum of furniture: beds for 2 of the rooms, 10  plastic patio chairs, and a few kitchen supplies such as dishes and cups. We were beginning to unpack the suitcases and incredibly large duffle bags; Shirley describes them as large enough to put a body in. Thoughts of the many people who had contributed sewing items and money to make this trip a reality warmed my heart. Although we so far from making this house a home, it felt natural to be here. 
Unfortunately, something happened to make us feel very uncomfortable and insecure in our house. We were asleep the night of August 21 when we were awakened at approximately 3:00 a.m. by the sounds of men shouting and fighting outside. Jeff ran into the living room to see the front doors wide open. He called out for me, concerned that I might be outside. I ran up to him and saw that the strong padlock we carefully use each night to secure the front door was missing. We ran into the hallway leading to the bedrooms, locking the hallway door behind us. On the way to our bedroom at the end of the hall, we woke up Shirley. We three locked ourselves into the unlit bedroom, armed with the only things at hand: a can of mousse and a spray bottle of DEET.
By this time, things had grown quiet outside. Jeff peered around the window and saw someone with a bow and arrow. He whispered to phone Robert, our faithfully friend and driver for long distance travel. “Robert, please come! There were men shouting and arguing, Jeff saw someone with a bow and arrow, and we don’t know where our guard is”. It took about 10 minutes for Robert to arrive.  He ascertained that no one was on our property, then knocked on our front door.  “Baba Jeff and Momma Yvonne, it’s safe to come out” were some of the most beautiful words ever spoken.dibly
We turned on all the lights in the house and found that someone had gone into every room of the house, taking everything of value. The mini photo printer- taken from the kitchen counter. My MacBook Pro - taken in its case from the living room. Shirley's backpack was missing. And from our bedroom they took a number of items. A quilted case containing external USB drives which had been right next to n bottles  needed for a year, and the meter for measuring the INR of my blood. All gone. 
And all then cash we had on hand was gone. Poof!  Just like that. 
And it slowly dawned on me, My purse contained not only cash, my passport and credit cards, but my $4500 sound processor which allows me to hear from my deaf side. 
The guard was in the guard house adjacent to the only entrance to the property. 
Robert and the guard walked the property, and came to the gazebo which had been designed to look like a hut. From the outside looking in, Jeff and Robert could see many of our belongings thrown around.  For example, all of the contents of the large suitcase from our bedroom were dumped out and rifled through.

Robert went to the police station and paid for the police to come out to do an investigation. When the sun rose, he went back to pickup the officers He also picked up a police dog and handler. Fingerprints were taken from any flat surfaces. When we were allowed to retrieve belongings from the crime scene, we found that Shirley’s backpack was untouched except for her share of the cash she was carrying, Jeff’s backpack was gone - except that his passport had been taken out and left behind on the floor.  My computer was taken, as were my USB backup drives. And my purse was gone, including all of its contents.
People from the church were called early on and began showing up to lend us support. Tim Cypher, another missionary located in Gulu, heard and came with coffee and muffins. We were surrounded by loving and caring people throughout the day.
Later that day Jeff and Robert were called to the police station to give their statements. The security guard and his friend were arrested as the prime suspects.
It has been an odd week, with the security guard and friend being bailed out by the landlord, who began pointing his finger at Robert as the criminal. The investigation is still ongoing. There is little hope that we will recover our money and possessions.


We still have many unanswered questions.
How did the thugs get the key to our front door padlock?
How did all three of us sleep through the activity of people going through the house carrying things. And what about the large number of the things that were taken from our room? That must have taken some time. One theory is that they used some sort of gas to put us into a sound sleep.
Where was the guard during the time they broke into our house, removed our belongings, and went through our possession?. What didn’t he check on our safety after allegedly chasing off the thieves?


What have we learned from this?

1) We have a lot of love and support in Uganda. We are so far from home, but they have helped carry us through.
2) The Grove, our home church, has some incredibly loving and dedicated people in the Outreach Department. They worked round the clock to make sure we knew they were backing us.
3) We have a strong network of caring friends in the U.S.  They have maintained a steady source of strength for us.
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Wednesday, August 7, 2019

Overwhelmed by love in the form of jewelry (no, this is not about Jeff)






This is a picture of the people who cheerfully greet each other first thing in the morning every day, scantily clothed no matter the weather. A nicer, more friendly group one would be hard pressed to find! They are my buddies in water aerobics class. We meet 6 days a week in the outdoor pool in Shamel Park, rain or shine, wind or calm. After a cold winter in a pool with wind and rain, it is no wonder we have formed a special bond. 

When Nina, our teacher, asked what the class could do to help us, I asked if they would be willing to donate any unwanted costume jewelry for use in a project that I have planned. And so began the daily showering of necklaces, bracelets, and earrings. All colors of the rainbow. All styles. My friends brought over 400 pieces of jewelry! There will be many smiles in Uganda because of their generosity. 

I am going to miss the water and the exercise. Most of all, I will miss my friends who are so generous.





P.S. If you are in the Riverside area and are looking for a way to work out and a place to meet some mighty nice people, try Water Aerobics by Nina 

Sunday, August 4, 2019

Definition of generous

Definition of generous
a. characterized by a noble or kindly spirit : MAGNANIMOUS, KINDLY; a generous heart
b. Ladies of the Raincross Quilt Guild
I went to my last meeting of the Raincross Quilt Guild http://raincrossquiltguild.blogspot.com/ a couple of weeks ago and was overwhelmed by the generosity shown to me. My guild friends kept stopping by where I was sitting and handing me boxes and bags of sewing supplies to take to Uganda. They gave me notes of encouragement. And I can't forget the cash (a total of $410) that people kept handing me to purchase anything else needed. Friends. Generous.






Tuesday, July 30, 2019

Emotions (by Jeff)


Emotions

Yvonne has written about the stress she has been feeling during our packing and all the other details we have had to address before August 14th. I on the other hand have tried to keep an upbeat and positive attitude. I have tried to encourage her that we will get everything done in time. The problem is that I am a procrastinator (have been my whole life). If she had not taken the lead on this move with her “to do list” and daily schedules of what we need to accomplish, I would probably be ready in August 2020. Today I was able to communicate with the Ugandan Embassy in Washington D.C. to discuss my Visa and now have that issue settled. We finished packing up the kitchen and hall closet this morning. And tonight we will pack duffel bags and suitcases with things for our new home in Gulu. Step by step we are making progress and the end is in sight.

Every box we go through brings back memories of our 33 years of marriage (wedding photos, children’s school work, and family photos). What do we keep? What goes into storage so we have it when we return? What do we give away? Every day is filled with tough decisions and emotions. And I am a very emotional person. I cry watching commercials and movies. When people tell me that they will miss me I tear up. Today my good friend and business partner (Marc Stirdivant) passed away after a long battle with cancer. So, it has been a very emotional day. It is a good thing that we have so much to do and I have to stay focused and keep my mind occupied on the task at hand.

What a difference a text makes.

Our all-grown-up kids decided that it would be fitting to gather last weekend for the last time we would all be in our house together for a couple of years. The dream was that we would relax and enjoy each other, eat some homemade food, and generally begin the process of saying goodbye. Jeff and I were behind schedule for packing/storing/moving by Wednesday the 31st so that our renters could move in. I was a little concerned about all of the things that were left to do, but was assured that the worry was needless.
Sunday was a day filled with progress toward our goal, but I was still concerned about our move-out day of Wednesday. We did spend time together, and even fit in a little pool time, but most of the day was spent packing.
I am so glad that Rachel and her boyfriend, Scott, came. Rachel took one look around and could see that relaxing would not be a major part of the agenda. They finished packing up the china cabinet (which took much longer than I had imagined). Rachel was an encouragement to me as I went through the rest of my closet, deciding on the destiny of things that I hadn't worn for ages (most went to the Salvation Army). She did most of the bending and all lifting required, saving me from back pain later in the day. Jacob and Jonathan were both helpful in other ways, but I worked side by side with my daughter, learning to appreciate her diligence and positive attitude as an adult.
At bedtime, I looked around, excited that we had made so much progress, yet still concerned about what remained. How in the world would we be able to get everything finished?
Just then, Jeff came in with a huge smile on his face. He had received a text from the young man who would rent our bedroom asking if he could delay his moving until August 14 (which is the day we depart for Uganda). It didn't take long for Jeff to respond. Praise the Lord!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           

Surprise! Friends who are like family Part 2

My precious friends from women's Bible study decided to surprise me with a party to say goodbye. I was very touched. There were many clever decorations made of maps, hearts, arrows, and crosses. There was a globe with a crystal heart on Uganda. And a beautiful cake. (Pictures are included below because a picture is worth a thousand words).

The centerpiece of the party was a circular puzzle of the world with Africa in the center. How they found a map with Africa as the center is beyond me. We sat in a circle,  and each person held a piece of the puzzle and said something about me, then added their piece to the puzzle.  I was in tears. My friends are so kind.

The very center of the puzzle is the piece with Africa. I was given the piece but was not allowed to put in in the puzzle. I am to keep it until I return, and will place it then to make the puzzle complete. More tears.  I've decided to carry the puzzle piece with me take photos of it in various locations.

Now, those of you who know me well (or even a little bit) know that I do not like being the center of attention. So this was way way out of my comfort zone and left me exhausted - but I wouldn't trade it for the world. Such a sweet time of fellowship. Thank you, Table 44.










Friday, July 26, 2019

Friends Who Are Like Family Part 1

We still have nearly 3 weeks before we leave, but folks are making sure that they have a chance to gather together to wish us well, ask questions about what we think life will be like, and pray over us. I have been touched by these "wish you well" gatherings on a very deep level. Two of the gatherings were this week, and we now officially feel beyond loved by my friends. On Sunday afternoon (after being commissioned in church) there was a BBQ with our Small Group. Our host and hostess went above and beyond in terms of decking their house with all things Ugandan. We enjoyed food, fellowship, and a sweet time of prayer.
Friends. We will miss them for a season.










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